Details About Hindu Wedding Traditions: Gujurati, Tamil, Telgu and more
Planning a Hindu wedding in the San Francisco Bay Area requires both cultural understanding and logistical expertise. Many Hindu and Indian weddings in Northern California involve multi-day celebrations with large guest counts, detailed ceremonial timelines, and multiple venues. From coordinating Baraat processions and Garba celebrations to managing Mehndi gatherings and sacred mandap ceremonies, every event must be carefully planned to ensure traditions are honored while the overall wedding weekend flows seamlessly.
With experience planning more than 300 Hindu wedding-related events, we understand the nuances involved in producing these celebrations—from working with priests and coordinating ceremony timing to managing large wedding parties, vendor teams, and complex production schedules. Our team regularly supports couples hosting Gujarati, Tamil, Telugu, Bengali, Nepali, and multicultural Hindu weddings throughout the Bay Area, helping families navigate both traditional rituals and modern wedding experiences.
Because Hindu weddings often include multiple events across several days, thoughtful planning is essential. We guide couples through the entire processfrom early ceremonies such as Roka, Haldi, and Mehndi to high-energy Garbas and Baraats and finally the sacred wedding ceremony itself , ensuring every moment is organized, meaningful, and beautifully executed.
HINDU WEDDING RITUALS
The Hindu Roka Ceremony Where both families come together to celebrate the upcoming union of the couple and give them their blessing. Often considered one of the first official steps in Hindu wedding traditions, the Roka marks the families’ shared support and excitement as the couple begins their wedding journey.
Haldi (or Pithi Ceremony) Typically takes place on the morning of the wedding day (or the day before, depending on region). Each partner is separately anointed by loved ones with yellow haldi to bless them with good luck, prosperity, and protection. Traditionally, the couple then stays in their respective homes (or separate spaces) to avoid seeing each other before the wedding day and to preserve the sacred anticipation of the ceremony.
Ganesh Poojan Some Hindu wedding ceremonies begin with the summoning of Ganesha, the Hindu deity of wisdom and new beginnings. By invoking Ganesha, families ask for obstacles to be removed from the wedding ceremony and for blessings of clarity, harmony, and success throughout the marriage celebration.
Vara Yatra (Baraat) This when one partner and their party arrive at the ceremony in a joyful procession, often accompanied by music, dancing, and celebratory energy. They are greeted with akshat (rice), tilak (dot on the forehead), arati (a plate carrying a lighted lamp), and a garland, creating a meaningful welcome rooted in traditional Indian wedding rituals.
Grahashanti This a sacred ritual where the planets are invoked by name and blessings are received from each planetary deity for the couple’s life together. This ceremony reflects the importance of astrology in many Hindu communities and is performed to bring harmony, stability, and spiritual protection to the marriage.
Kanyadan In many Hindu wedding traditions, one partner is led to the mandap by a sibling or close family member (often a brother or maternal uncle), while the other partner awaits with family nearby. The couple’s feet may then be washed with milk and water by parents or elders to purify them as they prepare to begin a new life together, symbolizing respect, devotion, and transition.
Hastamilap is the joining of the couple’s hands together with cotton thread, signifying an unbreakable bond while the priest recites holy verses. This ritual symbolizes unity, partnership, and spiritual connection, and it is often seen as one of the most visually meaningful moments in a traditional Hindu wedding ceremony
Exchanging Garlands is done after a prayer to Ganesha and is commonly known as the Jaimala. The garlands are meant to welcome each partner into the other’s family and serve as a symbol of mutual acceptance and the desire to be married to one another, often followed by cheers, joyful teasing, and celebration.
On The Wedding Mandap The couple is seated in front of the agni (or holy fire) as a priest recites mantras from the Holy Scriptures. In Hinduism, fire is regarded as a purifier and a sacred witness. In a ritual called mangalfera the couple walk around the fire four times (a symbol of the four ashrams of life), praying and exchanging vows of duty, love, fidelity, and respect. The priest then directs members of the family to make offerings into the fire. Finally, the couple performs the ritual called the Saptapadi, taking seven vows, spoken in Sanskrit, and sealing their marriage forever.
Dhruvadarshan The priest directs the newlyweds’ eyes to the pole star, which remains steadfast in the sky, signifying that their marriage shall remain steadfast. This moment is both symbolic and spiritual, reflecting the intention of stability, devotion, and lifelong partnership in many Hindu wedding traditions.
Sindoor In traditions where it is practiced, once the marriage is completed a red-orange powder is applied to a partner’s hair parting to indicate that they are now married. This ritual is culturally specific and may be adapted or omitted depending on region, family tradition, and the couple’s preferences.
Reception This a post-wedding celebration and a way of introducing the couple to each other’s community. This event has no mandatory rituals to be followed; instead, it is often filled with dancing, music, and a grand feast that reflects family hospitality, cultural pride, and joyful celebration.
Aashirvaad Ceremony This celebrated to seek the blessings of elders and well-wishers. For this ceremony, often one partner’s family, along with friends and relatives, visit the other partner’s home and present the newlywed couple sweets or fruits along with jewelry, and the couple then touches elders’ feet to receive blessings. The entrance of the couple’s residence may be decorated with a string of mango leaves that remains for up to one year after the wedding. Clothing gifts, including sarees, may be presented, and in return parents may gift items such as a ring or a watch, depending on family custom.
Hindu | Gujurati
PRE EVENTS
In Gujarati Hindu wedding traditions, one partner may wear two sarees on the day of the wedding: the panetar saree (a red and white saree made of gaji silk, plain or embellished with zari threadwork) and the gharchola saree (a bandhani saree in red or maroon coloring with zari threadwork), which is typically worn for the Vidaai. The other partner often wears traditional attire such as a dhoti kurta or regional formalwear, reflecting Gujarati cultural heritage and family tradition.
Gujarati weddings are known for being colorful affairs, with folk music, vegetarian dishes, and rich rites, rituals, and wedding games that mark the celebration. Many Gujarati families blend spiritual ceremony with playful joy, creating a multi-event experience that feels vibrant, family-centered, and full of personality.
Chandlo in Gujarati is a red vermillion tika and Matli means money. According to the Chandlo Matli custom, one partner and four male family members visit the other partner’s home. A parent or elder applies the red Chandlo on the visiting partner’s forehead, gifts token money, and blesses them. On this occasion, the wedding date is also fixed among the two families, making it a significant ritual in Gujarati wedding ceremonies.
Garba is a Gujarati folk dance (and can replace the Sangeet) coordinated by people clapping generally in a circle formation. It’s also done with dandia (drum sticks used to dance with a partner) or raas. It can take place for a small portion of the evening or be a focal point of the entire event, often becoming one of the most memorable, high-energy moments of the wedding weekend.
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An Antarpaat is a cloth drawn between the couple once one partner enters the mandap. This ritual is carried out to prevent the couple from seeing each other’s face until the auspicious moment, building anticipation and honoring the sacred timing of the ceremony.
The Saptapadi is one of the most crucial ones in a Gujarati wedding. The couple take seven steps together while taking seven vows of the holy matrimony. The seven vows include promises to love, respect, take care of each other, plan a family, and remain eternally together, reinforcing partnership and devotion at the heart of Gujarati Hindu wedding traditions.
POST EVENTS
Chero Pakaryo. A rather funny Gujarati wedding ritual, one partner catches the pallu of an in-law’s saree and asks for more gifts. Everyone then fills up the saree pallu with cash and gifts which are later presented to the couple, making this tradition both playful and celebratory.
Vidaai. After the reception is over, one partner bids farewell to their parental home in an emotional Vidaai ceremony. Rice grains are thrown from behind the head toward the home being left, symbolizing gratitude, blessings, and the emotional transition into a new chapter of married life.
Ghar Nu Laxmi. One partner is warmly welcomed in their new home by an elder (often a mother-in-law in traditional families). Aarti is performed for the couple and they are welcomed with blessings. The entering partner then pushes a grain-filled pot at the doorstep, an auspicious custom believed to bring prosperity, abundance, and good luck in Gujarati wedding tradition.
Hindu | Tamil Nadu
PRE EVENTS
Tamilian weddings are known for their simplicity and elegance. Although this is a once in a lifetime event, Tamil marriages are not always an extravaganza, but they are still lavish in their own right. Priority is given to rituals and traditions, and special attention is given to conducting each and every ritual in its original form, which is why Tamil wedding ceremonies are often admired for their spiritual precision.
Traditionally, one partner wears a two-piece garment known as Veshti and Angavastram, preferably made of puttu or silk. The other partner often wears traditional Kanjeevaram (Kanchipuram) silk sarees in bright hues paired with gold jewelry that is commonly family heirlooms. These attire choices are iconic elements of Tamil Nadu wedding traditions and reflect heritage, status, and cultural continuity.
Nakshatra Porutham – Matching of horoscopes is given utmost importance in a Tamil wedding. The horoscope (nakshatrams) is matched following Vedic guidelines based on twelve points or Poruthams like Nadi, Yoni, Rasi, Gana, and others. This determines key factors such as the wedding date, the precise moment for the wedding (muhurtha), and additional rituals, aligning the marriage with auspicious timing and spiritual harmony.
Panda Kaal Muhurtham is a pre-wedding ritual where the families pray for the successful culmination of the wedding ceremony. This involves a small puja, the breaking of a coconut that is deemed auspicious, and welcoming one partner into the family by the other partner’s side, symbolizing acceptance, unity, and spiritual protection.
Mangala Snanam is sometimes described as the South Indian ceremonial bath ritual and is often compared to Haldi in its cleansing symbolism. Turmeric may be applied to each partner, and they are separately washed by family to signify purification for the wedding ceremony, preparing them spiritually and physically for marriage.
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Maalai Maatral – One partner is brought into the wedding mandap and the couple exchange flower garlands as a first step of the wedding. The ritual is repeated three times. Sometimes the couple playfully tries to evade garlanding by the other, adding a lighthearted, affectionate moment within the sacred wedding setting.
Oonjal is a ritual primarily in South Indian weddings that takes place after the exchanging of garlands. It is a beautifully decorated swing that the couple is seated in and gently rocked back and forth. The families sing songs, and the couple may be fed sweetened milk and bananas while milk and sandalwood paste is smeared on their feet, symbolizing blessings, protection, and a smooth journey into married life.
Kanyadanam – The couple is then asked to step off the swing. Then the end of the couple’s clothing is tied together (often a saree is tied to the end of an angavastram). A parent may apply kajal, and another parent may wash the feet of the receiving partner, who is viewed as representative of Lord Vishnu in many traditions. The giving partner may be seated with their parent, with a coconut placed on their hands. The parent supports their child’s hands and offers the coconut to the receiving partner. Holy water is poured over the coconut, and through this formal ceremony, the family gives their child into marriage and requests lifelong care and partnership. The couple’s hands may also be tied with sacred thread to seal their union.
Muhurtham – After completion of the Kanyadanam ritual, the family presents one partner with a nine-yard silk saree symbolizing acceptance into the family. Vermillion may be applied to the hair parting in traditions where it is practiced. The partner then changes into the saree gifted by in-laws and returns to the mandapam. A grass ring may be placed on the head, along with a yoke and reed grass belt, and water is poured over the yoke. This ritual is a symbolic reminder that the couple together must overcome the challenges of life. The Thaali is blessed by the priest and tied as the South Indian equivalent of a mangalsutra; in many families, knots may be tied by the partner and a final knot may be tied by a sibling, depending on tradition.
POST CEREMONY
Reception – The wedding is followed by a formal reception in the evening where the guests are treated with a lavish vegetarian spread. The newlyweds are seated on thronelike chairs on top of a stage where they can meet and greet all the guests, celebrating community, hospitality, and family connection.
Grihapravesham – When the couple reaches their home, one partner is given a warm and celebratory welcome. An elder performs a small aarti and escorts them inside the house where they are led to seek the blessings of the family deity first, marking a spiritually meaningful beginning to married life.
Hindu | Telugu
PRE EVENTS
Sari is a staple attire in a Hindu Telugu wedding, and each partner may wear different types of traditional garments for the many rituals and ceremonies associated with matrimony. Telugu wedding attire often includes nine yards of drape with heavy golden borders and bright hues of orange, royal blue, pink, maroon, and green, paired with meaningful jewelry and family heirlooms. The other partner may wear a kurta and dhoti with a turban, and in many families a gold amulet is tied around the forehead with a yellow thread along with a distinctive red vermillion teeka before the wedding ceremony begins, reflecting auspicious protection and cultural identity.
Nischitartham is the engagement ritual that welcomes the festivities. In this ceremony, the two families meet and perform traditional rites to make the engagement of the wedding couple official, often accompanied by blessings, gifting, and shared celebration. As experienced planners of luxury multi-day Hindu weddings, we frequently support couples through these early events, coordinating everything from engagement rituals to Garbas, Mehndi celebrations, and the start of a full wedding weekend timeline.
Muhurtam is the holy date and time of the wedding and is finalized after consulting the horoscopes. Gifts are exchanged between families on a ring ceremony tray while the couple receives blessings from elders, aligning the wedding with auspicious timing and spiritual harmony. In Telugu wedding planning, this moment often influences the entire weekend schedule, and our team has extensive experience building seamless timelines around Muhurtam, priest requirements, and guest experience across multiple ceremonies and venues.
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Mangala Snanam is one of the first wedding-day rituals that the couple is needed for. On the day of the wedding, the couple takes an auspicious bath in order to prepare to perform the sacred rites, symbolizing purification and readiness to enter marriage. Because Telugu weddings often include multiple ceremonial moments and precise timing, we plan logistics around vendor arrivals, hair and makeup pacing, and family movement so the ritual timing stays intact without stress.
Peparation in a Telugu marriage is a meaningful part of the wedding, where each partner may be smeared with Nalugu, a turmeric paste applied from head to toe. This traditional practice is believed to cleanse the skin and bring a natural glow after bathing, and afterward the couple changes into fresh clothing for the ceremony. It is also commonly said that it is better for the couple not to leave town until the wedding is complete, honoring the spiritual focus and containment of the wedding period—something we consider carefully when planning multi-day schedules and guest events.
Kanyadanam is a central Telugu wedding ritual during which parents formally entrust their child into marriage with blessings and sacred intention. In some traditions, one partner sits in a bamboo basket and a partition curtain is held so the couple does not see one another until the auspicious moment. A parent washes the receiving partner’s feet as they are considered representative of Lord Vishnu on the wedding day, and the ritual underscores family responsibility, spiritual continuity, and the beginning of a shared married life.
Mangalasutra is the sacred thread tied with a golden disc and knotted three times to symbolize the physical, mental, and spiritual union of the couple. This ritual is one of the most emotionally resonant moments of many Telugu Hindu wedding ceremonies, and as planners we ensure the pacing, seating, music cues, photography positions, and family flow support the significance of the moment while maintaining cultural and ceremonial integrity.
Hindu | Bangladesh
PRE EVENTS
Pati Potro is where the family assembles at one partner’s home to decide the marriage date. The family gifts the couple auspicious items such as sweets, fish, betel leaves, and betel nut, symbolizing prosperity and blessing. These Bengali Hindu wedding traditions often set the tone for the larger multi-day celebration, and we support couples by coordinating family arrivals, gift presentations, and timeline details so the ritual feels smooth and meaningful.
Aashirbaad is the Bengali version of the engagement ceremony, but instead of the couple exchanging rings, elders and future in-laws bless them with gold jewelry, clothing, and sweets. This is a blessing-forward ritual centered on family approval, and it is often paired with additional celebrations that may include music, hosting, and formal family introductions, especially when planning modern fusion or destination-style Bengali weddings.
Ai Buro Bhaat is the last meal the couple will have as single people in their respective homes. A parent traditionally prepares classic Bengali foods followed by mouth-watering sweets, creating a tender, intimate moment before the ceremony. In planning, we treat this as a high-emotion milestone and often help families protect the intimacy of the moment while still integrating photography and respectful documentation.
Holud Kota is where an odd number (5, 7, or 9) married women make Haldi paste out of raw turmeric sticks using grinding stones. One woman, called the ayo, holds the grinding stones while the other women hold onto her hands and elbows as she grinds. The women also grind rice powder from scratch, called Dhan Kota, and these preparations become part of the sacred continuity of the upcoming wedding rituals.
Ganga Nemontron & Kola Gach Nemontron. After Holud Kota, the women go to invite the Ganges (or Goddess Ganga) to the wedding. They take bananas, betel leaves, nuts, and sindoor, and after inviting Ganga, they invite a banana tree as well. An unbloomed plantain leaf is taken from the tree and tied to a dorpon, reinforcing the symbolic protection and blessing woven into Bengali Hindu wedding ceremonies.
Dodhi Mongol & Jol Tola is where the mothers of the couple feed them curds, puffed rice, and sweets before the start of the wedding rituals. This becomes the last meal as the couple fasts until the wedding is over. During this time, a group of women goes to the Ganges to collect the water used for wedding baths, linking the ceremony to sacred water and ancestral tradition.
Bridhhi & Nandi Mukh is the puja performed by the wedding pandit (priest) dedicated to the ancestral generations of the family, asking for their blessings. The puja is performed at one partner’s home, and a portion of previously ground haldi and rice is used. The partner is bathed in Ganga water after haldi application, and that haldi—now ritually significant—is taken to the other partner’s home to be used in their Gaye Holud, carrying spiritual continuity between both families.
Gaye Holud starts with one partner receiving the other partner’s haldi along with the Wedding Tatta consisting of clothing, sweets, paan-supari, and fish. Then haldi is applied and the partner is bathed in holy Ganga water. This is one of the most beloved Bengali wedding rituals, and as planners we often coordinate it alongside broader pre-events—like Mehndi, Sangeet-style celebrations, and family hosting—while protecting the cultural flow and meaning.
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Dorpon to Bor Jatri. The one member of the couples mother hands him the dorpon (to cast off evil) before he heads to the Mandap. The one member of the couple is to carry the Dorpon throughout the wedding. The Mother blesses him for his new journey and ties red threads and tulsi mala on his neck. The Bor Jatri (or Baraat) proceeds for the wedding, except for the Mother, as she awaits the one member of the couple.
Chhele Boron to Bostro Daan is the welcoming of the one member of the couple. The one member of the couples mother welcomes the one member of the couple with sweets and water while everyone plays the holy Conch shell and Ulludwhani (high pitched sound signifying festivity). The father of the one member of the couple presents the one member of the couple with Bostro (new clothes) and Angti (gold ring) which he needs to wear during the wedding.
Saat Paak is done after the one member of the couple is carried out to the Wedding Mandap while keeping her face covered with two betel leaves. Typically her brothers or cousins carry her in a Peerhi (or wooden seat) and take seven rounds around the one member of the couple. Then, the couple looks at each other three times on Shubho Drishti. Following this, the couple exchange garlands.
Sampradan is where the one member of the couple’s father gives her hand to the one member of the couple and ties the holy knot using both of their clothes. Mantras are chanted representing the one member of the couple promising the one member of the couple’s father to take care of his daughter all of his life.
Wedding Games are played either directly at the Mandap, or the couple leaves for the one member of the couple’s house and play wedding games with the siblings of the family.
Yagnya, Sindoor Daan & Surja Pranam where the wedding Pandit chants mantras. Once the Yagnya is complete, the one member of the couple applies vermillion on the one member of the couple’s hair parting using either a ring or a Dorpon on a small cane box.
Khoi Fela & Saptapadi. The one member of the couple’s brother fills a tray with puffed rice. The couple empties the tray in the holy fire. This is repeated three times. The final step is the Saptapadi where the couple walks around the Yagnya seven times while stepping on Paan and pushing grindstones with feet.
Hindu | Nepal
PRE EVENTS
Bagdan, a Ganesh pooja. A parent keeps a coconut, betel nut, areca nut, sacred thread, and kernels in a kalash (pot). The kalash is held above the head as the parent declares they are giving their child in marriage, and the kalash is handed to the future spouse as a spiritual and metaphorical gifting of their child. This ritual is foundational in many Nepali Hindu wedding traditions and sets the tone for the sacred continuity of the wedding.
Swayamvara is derived from the Ramayan episode in which Sita selects Ram after he lifts and strings Shiva’s bow. Rooted in “self-choice,” the Swayamvara reflects the symbolic concept of choosing a life partner, and traditions may reenact this through ceremonial selection. Before choosing, one partner prays to Goddess Parvati to help make a good choice, and historically, suitors would prove themselves through archery, mirroring the story of Ram.
When the life partner is chosen, a garland may be placed around the chosen partner’s neck, similar to the Indian Hindu Jaimala ceremony. This moment often carries strong emotional symbolism around devotion, destiny, and mutual acceptance, and modern couples may adapt it while preserving the ritual’s spirit.
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After the Swayamvara ceremony, the Saipata ceremony takes place. The time for this ritual is set by the astrologer. During Saipata, one partner places palm prints on white cloth, which is then sent to the other partner’s home along with gifts and preceded by a band, making the ceremony both ritualistic and celebratory.
If the receiving partner accepts the gifts, they add their palm prints to the cloth, symbolizing acceptance of the proposal. They then send back a Saipata of their own as a formal invitation for the wedding, creating a reciprocal exchange that blends symbolism, family involvement, and sacred intention.
On the auspicious wedding day, family and close friends may fast and perform Nandi-shradha and Matrika-poojam, during which ancestors are honored and worshipped. This ancestral reverence is a central element of many Nepali Hindu weddings and strengthens the spiritual framework of marriage.
Kicking off the festivities is the Janti (Baryatra), or wedding procession. Much like the Baraat, the Janti is a loud and cheerful gathering of one partner’s side, often accompanied by a musical band playing traditional tunes and Bollywood numbers. This is a major guest-facing moment, and we have extensive experience producing processions and arrivals—especially Baraats—so they feel exciting while staying organized and safe.
One partner is brought to the wedding venue either in a car or a horse-drawn carriage, and sometimes younger children are allowed to join. Before the Janti, families may pray to Lord Vishnu or Ganesh, grounding the celebration in spiritual preparation and blessing.
Once the arriving partner and loved ones reach the other partner’s home, family members walk around them three times and throw Lawa-akshat (popped and peeled rice) over everybody. Flower petals may also be thrown, and an aarti is performed with tikaa applied. The arriving partner then moves to a wooden seat in the courtyard, called the pida, where they are welcomed and offered food, reinforcing hospitality
The actual marriage ceremony begins with the Kanyadaan (Mahasankalpa). One partner is seated in the mandap and faces East. A yellow cloth is spread over the couple and the person performing the Kanyadaan, creating a sacred visual barrier while blessings are invoked and vows are prepared.
The formal giving away is performed with a Kalash full of water, mango leaves, pipal, palash, gular, arka, camphor, areca nuts, betel nuts, sacred thread, durva grass, and any items the family considers spiritually important. This ritual carries deep symbolism around purification, continuity, and the sacred responsibility of marriage.
The couple then sits together and their feet are washed by relatives using a copper bowl—this is called the godadhuwa ceremony. Blessings continue as one partner is offered a conch shell filled with grass, rice, yoghurt, fruit, sandalwood, and water, with some sprinkled on the head. A mixture of ghee, yoghurt, and honey may be fed as part of ceremonial nourishment and sacred preparation.
The person performing the Kanyadaan offers a gift to the priest to ward away the evil eye, traditionally a cow or money. From here, the couple is ushered into another room called the guptaghar, where clothing gifts are exchanged and the couple changes attire. A length of cloth—gath-bandan or lagan-gantho—links the couple together, symbolizing unity and shared destiny.
Following this, the priest repeats prayers and places tikaa marks on both partners. In some communities, the Brahman priest conducts a stone worship called Shilapooja. A sibling may place popped rice in one partner’s hands, which is tossed upward as an offering, continuing the rhythm of blessing and spiritual witness.
The eight mountains are worshipped using popped rice gathered in eight places to represent Sumeru, Shekhu, Udayachal, Marut, Vindyachal, Himalaya, Burait, and Sharad. The couple then conducts Saptapadi, taking seven steps together in front of the holy fire, formally sealing the marriage through sacred vows.
The couple may exchange mallas in the Dubo Ko Malla, with malas often made of grass, and flower malas may also be exchanged. Many modern couples also exchange wedding rings, blending tradition with contemporary symbolism while honoring the spirit of the ritual.
POST EVENT
Finally the one member of the couple applies sindoor, or vermillion powder, to the one member of the couple’s parting, in the Sindhur Halne. The one member of the couple puts the powder three times on the one member of the couple’s head. In some communities a length of white cloth is tied around a statuette of Vishnu or Ganesh and extended to cover the one member of the couple’s face while the sindhoor is applied.
On the third time, the couple is officially considered married. The one member of the couple then bows to the one member of the couple, placing her forehead on the top of his feet. After, she mixes ghee, honey, and yoghurt together in a bowl with her index finger. She feeds half to her husband and finishes the other half herself.
Finally, in traditions where it is practiced, one partner applies sindoor (vermillion powder) to the other partner’s hair parting in the Sindhur Halne. The powder may be applied three times, and in some communities a length of white cloth is tied around a statuette of Vishnu or Ganesh and extended to cover the receiving partner’s face during the application, creating a sacred moment of privacy and reverence.
On the third application, the couple is officially considered married. One partner then bows to the other, placing their forehead near the other’s feet as a gesture of respect and devotion. Afterward, a mixture of ghee, honey, and yoghurt is mixed in a bowl and shared—half fed to the partner and the other half eaten—symbolizing sweetness, unity, and shared nourishment in married life.
